If i'm honest, it makes me angry. If the shoe was on the other foot, i'd be wishing them all the best and showing them how thrilled I was when inside my heart would be breaking. That's being selfless!
We are lucky that we don't speak to our families so have no heart wrenching goodbyes to say apart from my son. He is studying geology at Plymouth Uni so has to finish his BSC. He has said he will be sad to see us go, but knows we all will have great lives. Cheap holidays for him he says. However, as hubs is working for one of the largest construction companies in the world in Perth and they often use Geologists for ground inspections and such, my son has already asked for contact names as he is indicating he may join us once he has finished uni.
Folk should look at the move as opening doors, not closing them. You only get one life so should be entitled to live it! x